The sandwich isn’t the problem

[vivian-9994-9994]

I’ve been married twice and I know the difference between abuse and partnership. Control is not tradition. In a healthy marriage, men and women stop competing and start cooperating. In my home, we play to our strengths and don’t keep score. I cook and take care of my husband because I value him and he shows up for me every day, especially when my health limits me. That’s not submission. That’s mutual respect. If making your husband a sandwich feels degrading, the problem isn’t the sandwich , it’s the relationship.

[anonymous-11909]

Beautifully put.